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With Mother's Day coming up this Sunday, me own dear departed mum has popped into my mind. While our relationship had its ups and downs, like those of many other strong-willed women, she did the best she could to prepare me for the complexities of the world. And some of the tidbits she passed along still hold up today: "Want to know the character of a man? See how he treats his mother. Even if he's not crazy about her, make sure she's treated with due respect." "If a man can maliciously hurt an animal, he can maliciously hurt you." "Act like a lady on your dates. But always have a dime (my note: this was long ago) for a phone call so someone can pick you up. Carry a nail file in your purse too." "No one on earth is lesser than you are because of the color of their skin. You are no less than they are because of the color of yours." "Take care of your looks, but don't rely on them. Use your brain to back them up." (isn't this similar to Judge Judy's beauty fades, dumb is forever admonition? ) "Always drive as if the other guy is nuts. He probably is." "I don't care if it's Frank Sinatra or Frank Schwarzkopf taking you out. Your curfew is midnight. When you're 18, have at it." Anything your mom told you...or may still tell you....that sticks with you? Happy Mother's Day to all past, present and future mums. *raising a toast to the Dowager Empress* ;) Queenie
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