Roberta,
"He would start at the top of the list and sell until we were debt free. And he'd probably be so pissed, he'd sell everything and go totally to cash and CD's. It would get rid of some dogs I haven't been able to bring myself to sell :-)."
I understand your situation.
If he buys off on spending taxable first, that would seem to be the best psycholigical solution.
Prior to retirement, LaLoba and I had a discussion on whether or not it made sense to pay off our mortgage, or put that same amount of money (into VWEHX, as it were!). This was part of a discussion on whether or not to take a lump sum for half of her pension or take the annuity instead.
I worked the numbers, and it would have been better, financially, to keep the mortgage in retirement. Several thousand dollars of interest spread over the life of the mortgage were involved. Anyhow, even though fincially a better deal, it wasn't psychologically, so we paid off the mortgage, and haven't looked back since.
We have an equivalent HELOC set aside, which I do tap (only to smooth out lump sum money problems during the year), but obviously have the ability to pay off within a day or two (the amount of time necessary to transfer funds from Vanguard to our credit union).
But everyone is different.
Good luck in your personal 'prime credit crunch'!